idunnosurfing: (that is all.)
♆ that idiot son of Poseidon ([personal profile] idunnosurfing) wrote in [community profile] starhuevalley2018-06-23 06:36 am
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ok quick question
where can a guy get a cup of coffee
it's been days and I feel like there's an elephant tapdancing on my skull


[ETA 12/12/18: holy wow these are late, it's 1000% my bad and I blame nobody for ignoring any ancient backtags you receive from me because YIKES. it's not you it's me etc.]
anappleaday: (⚖ - solemn)

[personal profile] anappleaday 2018-06-26 08:43 am (UTC)(link)
I am sure we can find something that will work :)

yes, that is exactly it
and sometimes not feeling the damage can also make it easy to make it more severe
like running on an ankle that has been sprained :<

a stuffed animal, the heat and smell of a cup of tea, a heavy blanket
touch, taste, and smell all work well
Edited 2018-06-26 08:43 (UTC)
anappleaday: (⚖ - wistful)

[personal profile] anappleaday 2018-06-26 09:46 am (UTC)(link)
[ "...You know, you don't get to make fun of me for immediately deciding to take someone under my wing ever again after this." "It is cute you think saying so will stop me ... ?" "Oh, come on." ]

I hope it helps '^'

also, we are growing a garden just for sitting in on bad days
that is where the herbs for tea are coming from
you or your friend are welcome to come use it
anappleaday: (⚖ - unhappy)

[personal profile] anappleaday 2018-06-27 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
it will likely do so anyway :( I am sorry
anappleaday: (⚖ - headtilt)

[personal profile] anappleaday 2018-12-15 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
I can still feel bad even if it is not my fault :<

[ there's a few moments' pause before the next reply comes in ]

that seems like a much larger problem
considering scale
anappleaday: (⚖ - unhappy)

[personal profile] anappleaday 2018-12-15 04:28 am (UTC)(link)
it is fine! I am not offended
my partner has a similar reflex and is trying to be better about it
but this means that mine is to comment on it :)


[ "—hey!"

addressing the rest, though, is... difficult. her replies come slowly, with more of those hesitations sprinkled throughout. ]

I more meant in terms of consequences
you are right that the principle is the same.

perhaps keeping in mind that they can leave will help
or bringing things to keep it from being too quiet
but I should mention

I am not a god, but I have held a similar kind of authority
all of my kind are fair
I have always wanted to be kind as well, but it was not always possible to be both.

I do not have authority here
but since it sounds like what I am might cause stress I wished to be honest :<
in case he did come over
anappleaday: (⚖ - by my authority)

[personal profile] anappleaday 2018-12-29 03:24 am (UTC)(link)
I am sorry, but it was obvious from the beginning...
but there is no shame in claiming any of that for yourself

regardless
I just wanted to be sure '^'
it has been a bad surprise to friends with a dislike for that type of authority before
but I do not have that type of temper
and abuse of our authority for personal reasons is


[ ...is difficult enough to so much as consider that trying to work out describing why takes a longer pause. ]

it is alien to most of my cadre.
I understand it in others because I am well traveled? but for us it does not make sense.