Again, my deepest apologies, but I will be happy to take up the offer when I am able at a later time.

[Again, supposedly her betrothed is here, she's trying to deal with that little massive bombshell.]

Oh ah... before you go... even if it is not your name given at birth, perhaps coming up with a name you wish to be called would not go amiss. Even if it is not your true name, it would be no less real.